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Families and Valuing People

"In the same way that it is emphasised that adults with intellectual
disabilities are people first, so caregivers must be considered people first and consideration given to their full identity and multiple roles."

IASSID & WHO (January 2000.)

"Carers feel strongly that they have a lifelong responsibility for their sons and daughters. They want to be treated as full partners by public agencies."

('Valuing People' DoH. 2001.)

"A real cause for concern and anxiety is that many parents of (the) learning disabled… face difficulties in finding the right care, health services, education and leisure opportunities for their sons and daughters. At best they can feel obstacles are constantly being put in their way by society. At worst they feel abandoned by the rest of us."

Tony Blair - 'Valuing People'

Why Families Matter

  • The majority of men and women with learning disabilities in this country are supported in the community by their families. Even when people with learning disabilities leave home it does not mean they stop being a valued member of their family network.

  • Families are the only people who will have a continuous relationship with the person with a learning disability from childhood to adulthood. Families, therefore, have an important and unique contribution to make to discussions about services for the family member they support, as well as contributing to broader discussions about local learning disability services. This contribution needs to be acknowledged, valued, listened to, and acted upon.

  • Families often describe their relationship with services using the language of war. Families describe themselves as war weary - Fed up with battling - having to fight for every little thing. The research, 'In Their Own Right', by the Norah Fry Centre, found that many family carers said they found their relationships with services more stressful than any other aspect of caring for their learning disabled son or daughter.

  • Family carers of people with learning disabilities have not always been well served by mainstream Carer's initiatives. Research has shown they are not always accessing their right to a Carers Assessment, and when they do it does not necessarily lead to getting the support they need.

  • The report, Family Matters: Counting Families In, was published alongside the white paper Valuing People and catalogues many of the concerns expressed by family carers of adults with a learning disability. Rob Greig, one of the architects of the White Paper, has talked about Valuing People as representing an attempt to create a 'new deal for families'.

  • So, it comes as no surprise that ensuring families get the right sort of support is given high priority in the White Paper. Objective number four is to "increase the help and support carers receive from all local agencies in order to fulfil their family and caring roles effectively".

  • The drive to improve work with family carers is reflected in the new standards for inspecting learning disability services published by the Social Services Inspectorate. At a strategic level services are being asked to demonstrate how "the role of carers is recognised by social services strategy and supported by appropriate investment."

  • Valuing People seeks to promote a change in service culture that recognises that the relationship between family and professional is a crucial aspect of service effectiveness in delivering better services to men and women with learning disabilities. Developing partnerships with families is not an optional extra but a vital prerequisite in implementing the Valuing People change agenda at a local level.

  • Partnership Boards should not underestimate the challenge of building better relationships with families. The crucial question to ask is:

  • How do we create partnerships between families and services when relationships in the past have at times been more adversarial than collaborative?

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